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HOW TO SEDUCE A WOMAN
HOW TO SEDUCE A WOMAN
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* Seduction is an art. It takes as much practice as learning a musical
instrument or painting.
* Empathy is essential to seduction. Every woman is different, so
tailor your date, your words and your actions to that specific woman.
You must know what she is thinking before you can offer her the
pleasure she craves.
* Read poetry. Notice the imagery, the ambiguity and the sound. Notice
how modern poetry uses colloquial language to achieve all that. Don’t
use big words or cliches. Your language should be “diabolic” (ethos
and pathos) like that of a politician or a poet, not “symbolic”
(logos) like that of scientists and philosophers.
* If she senses that you are seducing her, she will run away. The pace
of your seduction should be slow and the volume should be quiet.
* All women like power in at least one of its many manifestations:
money, status, intelligence, strength, etc. You need at least a little
before you can seduce the most beautiful of women.
* Many girls will tell you that confidence is what they look for, but
nothing will increase your confidence like a successful seduction.
* Insinuation is a must. Only a movie star or a professional athlete
could expect success with a brash line like “let’s go back to my place
and….”
* Don’t be a doormat or a people-pleaser. If you are perceived as
weak, you will never get a girl.
* Always be honest, meaning don’t tell a lie. A lie is something you
can get caught in. Don’t lie about your income, whether you have a
girlfriend or not, whether you are good at sports, etc. Girls can see
right through lies. However, bending the truth to achieve a more
poetic effect is absolutely necessary. Also, most of the time, the
correct answer is to say nothing at all.
* Seducing a woman is like dancing with a woman. Sometimes you hold
her close and sometimes you let her shine on her own and watch. If you
are too clingy, she will feel suffocated. If you let her go and never
come back, she will be insulted.
* Reveal yourself slowly and only when directly asked. Don’t show more
of yourself than she asks for. When the mystery is gone, the seduction
is over.
* Girls with boyfriends make excellent targets. If you can seduce a
faithful girlfriend without showing up on the radar, you will have no
problem with a single girl.
* Seduction does not always end in the bedroom. If you seduce a
faithful girlfriend or wife, she may decide to cut off all contact
with you when she realizes that she is in love with you. Mark it as a
success and be thankful that you didn’t have to break up with her. Do
NOT however, go around ruining lives, there are people out there who
are happy with each other, and who really don’t need you to ruin that.
* Never take anything too seriously. You want to position yourself as
a vacation from other guys–as the perfect summer fling. You are not
possessive or controlling.
* Not every woman can be seduced. College-age girls are especially
difficult because they are the most satisfied with themselves. Younger
girls want to feel mature and older girls want to feel young.
* If the seduction fails for one reason or another, leave a good space
of time before attempting to seduce her again. She must completely
forget about the bad stuff before you can try to revive the old feelings.
* Women can sense fear and weakness very easily. If you have shown
fear or weakness (we all have), it’s time to start over.
* If you use this technique purely for the end result, you probably
don’t have the patience to perform a seduction correctly. Pleasure
plays a major role throughout the process. You are not offering her a
chance to sleep with you, but rather a chance to fall in love.
* Study the biographies, writings and speeches of the world’s greatest
seducers: Erroll Flynn, Casanova, Lord Byron, Charles De Gaulle,
Gabriele D’Annunzio, etc.
* Physically attractive seducers will be able to seduce much faster
than unattractive ones, because the attraction is already there.
However, unattractive men will have an easier time getting close to
girls and gaining access to their hopes and dreams.